Kulesi sihloko uzofunda 4 izinyathelo lawula ukwesaba uma usuyikhombile.
Sonke siyesaba okuthile. Nokho, okuningi kwalokho kwesaba akukho. Kufanele ukwamukele.
U-99% wesikhathi ukwesaba kwethu akufezeki. Siyizisulu zokudalwa kwethu kwemicabango engenangqondo. Siba amaZombi anyakazayo empilweni. Ukwesaba kusiqeda amandla, injabulo yokuphila.
Ukwesaba kufana neziqhwaga. Lapho bebhekene, bayabaleka. Lapho bephonselwa inselelo, bayancibilika futhi baphele.
Sesabani?
1) Ukwehluleka: esikwesaba ngempela ukubonakala kokwehluleka.
I-3) Ukuguga: esikwesaba ngempela umbono wethu wokuguga nokulahlekelwa ubusha bethu. Impilo yinhle kunoma yisiphi isikhathi.
4) Shintsha: sesaba ukungaqiniseki, ukungaqondakali.
5) Ukulahlekelwa: kodwa asikuboni konke esinakho okwamanje futhi esingaba nakho esikhathini esizayo.
6) Ekufeni: kodwa siyaphila manje, futhi, noma kunjalo, angazi ukuthi ukufa kusho ukuthini.
Okuwukuphela kwezakhi zokwesaba ezingokoqobo yimizwa engajabulisi ehambisana nokwesaba: ukukhathazeka, ukungezwani, ukuthukuthela imicabango emibi, kanye nezimpawu zomzimba ezingathandeki.
Ungakulawula kanjani ukwesaba?
1) Inselele imicabango yakho: Inselele ukwesaba ngamaqiniso aqeda izikhali.
2) Thatha izinyathelo ezingokoqobo: Uma ukwesaba kwakho kunokufaneleka, thatha izinyathelo ezidingekayo ukuze unciphise inkinga engase ibe khona. Imiphumela ewumphumela ayivamile ukuba mibi njengokwesaba futhi ngokuvamile iletha okuthile okuhle nakho.
3) Isidingo sokugunyazwa isicupho: Ukwesaba okuningi kubangelwa isidingo sethu sokuvunyelwa abanye. Yeka lesi sidingo sokugunyazwa kwangaphandle futhi uzivumele wena kuphela.
4) Bona impilo njenge-adventure ejabulisayo: Ngeke wazi ukuthi kuzoba yini ekhoneni, mhlawumbe into emangalisayo, mhlawumbe into enzima. Kodwa isimo sezwe sihlala sishintsha, futhi sifunda futhi sikhula njalo.
Uma uchithe impilo yakho yonke uphila ngokwesaba, uzodinga ukuchitha isikhathi ushintsha imikhuba yakho yokucabanga.