Nokho, lokhu akuzwakali kunothando kakhulu. Angisho ukuthi izingane kufanele zihlupheke. Cha, cha. Kodwa-ke, izinga elithile lokuhlupheka alinakugwenywa nhlobo ekuphileni kwabantu. Akunalutho oluphathelene nomphakathi esiphila kuwo namuhla. Kumayelana nokufunda ukuphila kahle ngokuhlupheka okungenakugwenywa esibhekene nakho sonke.
Uma ngikhuluma ngokuhlupheka angisho into elimaza ngamabomu njengobuxhwanguxhwangu noma ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane. Ngikhuluma ngezinhlobonhlobo zokuhlupheka ezingenakubalwa ezikhona empilweni.
Kuyadingeka ukusiza izingane zifunde ukuhlupheka okungcono kakhulu abangakwenza ngoba kuzosithinta sonke.
Bazohlushwa uthisha okhungathekile ongakwazi ukwenza izinto kahle, bazobhekana nezimo ezicindezelayo ezingokomzwelo ekuphileni kwabo komphakathi, bazobhekana nokungqubuzana phakathi kwezintandokazi zabangane babo nezabo, futhi bazobhekana ubuso nobuso izinguquko ekuzethembeni kwabo.
Ukuhlupheka kuyithuba lokukhula komuntu siqu. Sonke kufanele sikulwele, ngakho-ke kumelwe sifundise izingane zethu ukubhekana nenselele lapho zibhekene nobunzima. Uma singakwenzi lokho, sizozithola sinabantu abadala abangenasineke abakhononda ngazo zonke izinguquko abangazithandanga. Ukuhlakanipha okuningi emhlabeni kuvela kubantu abaye bahlupheka, hhayi kulabo abahlala phansi bakhononde.
Bafundise ukudlula ekuhluphekeni
Ukuphazamiseka nokugxila ngokomzwelo kuyizindlela ezimbili ezinhle zokubhekana nokuhlupheka; azishintshi amaqiniso, kodwa zenza ukuhlupheka kube lula ukubekezeleleka. Zisize zithole incazelo ekuhluphekeni kwazo. Kulokhu kuphila, ukuhlupheka kwazo kuzoba kuncane ngosizo lwakho.
Kuyisinyathelo esidingekayo ukuze uzuze injabulo.