Mhlawumbe wake wezwa igama elithi 'egosyntonic' nelithi 'egodystonic', ngakho, ekuqaleni, Angase abonakale njengamagama amabili anzima kakhulu ukuwaqonda kodwa empeleni angamagama okumelwe aqondwe ukuze sazi ukuthi thina noma abanye kanjani, Baxhuma nezwe elibazungezile (noma abaxhumani). Igama ngokwalo lisitshela ukuthi into ngayinye isho ukuthini nokuthi ingasho ukuthini kubantu.
Uma sikhuluma ngomuntu we-ego-syntonic kusho ukuthi uziphethe kahle, ukuthi uhambisana ne-ego yakhe (ego-tune). Bangase babe nenkinga kodwa lokho akubangeli ukuhlupheka kubo, ngoba abantu abane-egosyntonic disorder ngokuvamile bayalimaza abantu ababazungezile.
Ngemuva Ngakolunye uhlangothi, sithola abantu be-egodystonic noma abantu abaphethwe yi-egodystonic disorder. Laba bantu abahambisani nabo, okusho ukuthi i-pathology yabo idala ukuhlupheka kwangaphakathi, kodwa abadali umonakalo ongaka endaweni yabo. Lo muntu angase azi ukuthi unenkinga kunoontanga abahlukile, abantu abane-egosyntonic disorders.
I-Egosyntonic Disorder vs Egodystonic Disorder
Njengoba ubonile ngokufunda izigaba ezedlule, la magama amabili asetshenziswa ngaphezu kwakho konke ukuchaza indlela umuntu azibona ngayo (imicabango, ukuziphatha, izimo zokuphila, njll.). Kodwa akuzona iziyaluyalu kuphela, umuntu onesici sobuntu be-egosyntonic yilapho lo muntu engazizwa engakhululekile lapho ebhekene nezimo noma izinkinga. Kunalokho, Umuntu onobuntu be-egodystonic uphila impilo ngokuphatheka kabi njalo.
Abantu abanenkinga yokuphazamiseka kwengqondo abaqapheli ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi ukuziphatha kwabo noma isimo sabo sengqondo lapho bebhekene nezimo ezihlukahlukene kungabangela izinkinga ezifana nezingxabano, ukukhathazeka, ukucindezeleka ngisho nokuwohloka kobudlelwane phakathi kwabantu.
Nini ukucela usizo lwezengqondo
Umuntu onalolu hlobo lwesiyaluyalu uzama kuphela ukucela usizo lwezengqondo. Lapho beqala ukuqaphela ukuthi izimpawu zesifo sabo zibabangela kanjani ukungakhululeki. Imvamisa, abantu be-egosyntonic abafuni ukushintsha ngoba abakholelwa ukuthi bayakudinga, kodwa-ke, abantu be-egodystonic bavame ukucela usizo ngoba bebona ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle nabo.
Ngaphambi kokwelapha lolu hlobo lomuntu, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zizocabangela inqwaba yezinto, njengokusekelwa kwezenhlalakahle abanazo, amakhono omphakathi, ukuthi banalo yini ukukhathazeka noma cha, ukuthi bayazi ukuthi kwenzekani kubo, ukuthi yini i-ego yalowo muntu. kufana, njll. Umuntu ngamunye uyizwe elihluke ngokuphelele futhi impatho efanayo ngeke inikezwe wonke umuntu ngokulinganayo, kufanele ubheke izici zomuntu bese (kuphela lapho), hlola ukuthi yiluphi uhlobo lokwelapha olungcono kakhulu kulaba bantu.
Ngenqubo yoshintsho umuntu udinga ukuzwa ukungakhululeki, uma kungenjalo kunzima kakhulu ukuba abe nesifiso sangempela sokwenza izinto ngendlela ehlukile. Nakuba ukungakhululeki kufanele kube okumaphakathi ngoba uma umuntu ecindezeleke kakhulu angavinjelwa ngokomzwelo futhi izinguquko zingase zenzeke kancane kakhulu noma zingenzeki nhlobo ngenxa yokuvaleka kwakhe kwangaphakathi. Uma kungekho ukuphatheka kahle kwangaphakathi noma kuthambile kakhulu, khona-ke umuntu uzozivumelanisa nesimo sakhe. futhi ngeke ukholwe ukuthi uludinga ngempela ushintsho ukuze uthuthukise izinga lakho lempilo kanye nempilo yakho engokomzwelo.
Okuhlangenwe nakho okuphilayo kwenza umehluko
Ngokuya ngokuhlangenwe nakho komuntu, izimpawu zalesi sifo zingabonakala njenge-egosyntonic noma i-egodystonic. Ubungqingili, izingxabano zomuntu siqu noma zomsebenzi... yonke into ingabangela okuhlangenwe nakho ukuba kubonwe ngezindlela ezahlukene kuye ngokuthi umongo noma imizwa umuntu anayo, kanye nokuziphatha kwakhe okuthile.
Mhlawumbe umuntu ufuna ukuphila ngokuzola nangenhlalakahle ngokomzwelo futhi lokho kuwukuphela komgomo wabo, kodwa mhlawumbe izinguquko ofuna ukuzenza ekuphileni kwakho ukuze ufinyelele lokhu yizona ezigxile kakhulu ekuphathekeni kabi kwakho (ngokwesibonelo, umuntu ohlala kahle edolobheni elinomsebenzi omningi kodwa omnikeza imali ukuze aphile kahle, ufuna ukuhamba. sebenza ukuze uyohlala endaweni ethule ngaphandle kokuhlala ubhekene nengcindezi yomsebenzi).
Ngezinye izikhathi, lapho abantu bengazi ngokugcwele ukuthi zingaphathwa kanjani ezinye izimo, ukuziphatha kwe-egosyntonic noma izimo zengqondo zenzeka cishe ngaphandle kokuqaphela, okungabavumeli ukuthi babone izinguquko kwezinye izinkomba noma babone amathuba lapho bephambi kwabo.
Buyini ubungqingili be-egosyntonic noma ubungqingili be-egosyntonic?
Lapho umuntu Ukuphila ubungqingili be-egosyntonic kusho ukuthi umuntu uzizwa ejabule futhi evumelana nobunikazi bakhe bobulili obufanayo. Uzizwa evumelana nesiqu sakhe futhi kuyisinqumo asikhethile ngoba yindlela azizwa ngayo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma sikhuluma ubungqingili be-egodystonic, sikwenza lapho umuntu ezwa ukuthi ubunikazi bakhe bobulili akuhambisani naye futhi enqaba ubungqingili bakhe. Akakwamukeli ubunikazi bakhe bobulili futhi kukhiqizwa ukudideka kwangaphakathi okungabangela usizi olukhulu nokungakhululeki.
Kodwa izici ze-egosyntonic noma ze-egodystonic azigxili kuphela ekutheni umuntu ungqingili noma cha, zingenzeka kunoma yisiphi isimo sempilo yomuntu. Uma umuntu ezizwa egcwalisekile noma ngokuvumelana nemicabango yakhe, ukuziphatha kanye namagugu, uyoba nezici ze-egosyntonic. Ngokuphambene nalokho, uma umuntu enomuzwa wokuthi imizwa noma ukuziphatha kwakhe akuhambisani nomuntu wakhe wangaphakathi, Khona-ke uzozizwa ukudideka kwangaphakathi okuzodala ukungakhululeki, ukukhathazeka ngisho nokucindezeleka.
Izici eziyinhloko
Abantu abane-egosyntonic ngokuvamile bazizwa bejabule ngabo kanye nezindawo ezibazungezile, ngakho-ke sinentshisekelo yokuhlonza izici eziningi zabantu be-egodystonic njengoba yibona abavame ukucela usizo lokubhekana nokungakhululeki kwabo.
Laba bantu bavame ukuzizwa bengakhululekile lapho bebhekene nezimo ezintsha. Abazi futhi ukuthi bangase babe nalesi sifo sobuntu nokuthi ngenxa yako kungase kuphakame ezinye ezibalimaza ngokomzwelo futhi zithinte ngisho nobudlelwane babo phakathi kwabantu.. Abantu be-Egodystonic bazizwa benesidingo sokushintsha ukuze bazizwe bengcono kodwa abazi ukuthi bakwenze kanjani. Bangase bazizwe bevinjiwe nakuba benethuba loshintsho phambi kwabo. Udinga ukuthola ukuzinza ngokomzwelo kanye nenhlalakahle jikelele ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka.