Amanani

Amagugu yizimfanelo ezinhle nezimo zengqondo ezichaza umuntu. Lezo zimiso ezikwenza ukhethekile, lezo ezikuhlukanisayo kwabanye futhi abanye abantu abakwazi ukukuhlonza ngazo. Amanani akho awuphawu lwakho, indlela yakho yokwenza ezimweni ezithile ngendlela ethile. Ngoba empilweni, ama-impulses kanye nezimpendulo zakho kuhlotshaniswa nalezo zimiso ezikuphawulayo.

Kunamagugu okungumuntu ngamunye, lawo achaza umuntu nendlela athuthukisa ngayo impilo yakhe kanye nobudlelwano bakhe nabanye. Kodwa futhi Kukhona uchungechunge lwezindinganiso ezifanayo, okwabelwana ngazo emphakathini futhi lokho kuqinisekisa ukuthi ukuphilisana phakathi kwabantu kulungele wonke umuntu.

Lezi zindinganiso, ezinjengobumbano, ukuhlonipha abanye, uzwela, ukubekezelelana noma ukuthula, phakathi kokunye okuningi, yilokho okufeza isimo senhlalakahle yomphakathi. Ngakho-ke, amanani angalinganiswa ngokubaluleka kwawo, kucatshangelwa izinto eziza kuqala kwezenhlalo noma zomuntu siqu zomuntu ngamunye. Nakuba ngaphandle kokungabaza, okubaluleke kakhulu izindinganiso zobuntu, lezo ezivumela umphakathi ukuba ungenzeleli, ulingane noma ube nje wonke umuntu.

Izimiso zobuntu yilezo Zihlobene nokuziphatha, ukubekezelelana, ubungane, uthando noma ukwethembeka, phakathi kwabanye. Zonke ziyizimiso ezibeka inhlalakahle yomphakathi, ziyizici ezivumela abantu ukuba basungule ubudlelwano bomuntu siqu, ngokusekelwe kumagugu anjengenhlonipho, ubumbano noma ukwethembeka.

Ungacabanga ngempilo lapho izindinganiso zomuntu zazingekho? Umphakathi lapho ubugovu, ukuntuleka kwenhlonipho, ukungalingani noma ukungabi nobuntu phakathi kwabantu kubusa? Iqiniso liwukuthi emiphakathini eminingi kusenokuntuleka okukhulu kwezindinganiso. Ngoba njengoba usebenzela ukuba nesithombe esihle somzimba, kuyadingeka ukusebenza emfanekisweni wangaphakathi, funa inguqulo engcono kakhulu yakho ngezimfanelo zakho, izimiso zakho kanye nezindinganiso zakho.

Kwezinye izimo, lezi zindinganiso zinqunywa imfundiso yenkolo, zaziwa ngokuthi izindinganiso zokuziphatha. Yibo laba zisakazwa emphakathini ngezizukulwane ngezizukulwaneZingashintshwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ngoba izidingo zomphakathi nazo ziyashintsha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.

Ngezinye izikhathi ukubaluleka kokuziphatha kuvame ukudideka nokubaluleka kokuziphatha, nokho, imiqondo ehlukene. Amanani okuziphatha akhona ngokwemvelo, atholwa ngokuthuthuka komuntu siqu futhi yilezo zici ezibeka ukuziphatha komuntu emphakathini. Okungukuthi, lezo zimiso eziphawula ubuntu bomuntu ngamunye futhi ezithinta ukuhlalisana kwabo bonke abantu.

Njengoba ubona, ukuba namanani acacile, achaziwe futhi aqinile, Kubalulekile ukuthi izimpilo zabo bonke abantu zibe nobulungiswa, ukuzuza umphakathi olinganayo nokuthula. Kodwa futhi ukufeza isimo senhlalakahle yomuntu ngamunye, ngoba akukho lutho olwanelisa umuntu kunokuzizwa kahle ngabo. Futhi lokhu, ngokwezinga elikhulu, kuhambisana nezindinganiso nezimiso zomuntu ngamunye.

Amanani zitholwa ngesikhathi sokukhula komuntu ngamunye ebuntwaneni, kokubili emkhakheni wezenhlalo, njengomndeni noma esikoleni, kodwa nangemithombo yezindaba efana nethelevishini. Izimiso nezindinganiso ezitholwa izingane ngesikhathi sokukhula zizophawula ubuntu bazo besikhathi esizayo njengabantu abadala.

Ngenxa yalesi sizathu kanye nokukuphelezela kule ndlela eyinkimbinkimbi ebizwa ngokuthi impilo, sizokhuluma ngamagugu, ngemisebenzi yezingane kubazali bazo, ezihlotsheni zabo noma emphakathini. Ukuze ndawonye, singafundisa umphakathi wesikhathi esizayo onobuntu, onozwela futhi osekelayo, ukuze, ekugcineni, umhlaba ube indawo engcono yawo wonke umuntu.