Impi yokulingana ngobulili inenye yezimpi zayo ekhaya uma kuziwa ekusatshalalisweni kwemisebenzi: ukugeza izitsha, ukushintsha ama-diaper,... Abashadile, ezimweni ezinhle kakhulu, bavame ukwabelana ngale misebenzi.
Kodwa-ke, ucwaningo lwakamuva lubonise ukuthi ukulandelela imisebenzi eyenziwa ngomunye noma omunye akuyona indlela engcono kakhulu yobudlelwano bekhwalithi ephezulu. Kunalokho, idatha ikhomba Izinto ezimbili okufanele zibe nendawo yaphakade ohlwini lwezinto okufanele zenziwe ngabazali:
1) Yenza umsebenzi wasendlini nomkakho, okungukuthi, hhayi ngabanye.
2) Chitha isikhathi esihle nezingane zakho.
"Sithole ukuthi akunandaba ukuthi ubani owenzeni, kodwa ukuthi baneliseke kangakanani ngokuhlukaniswa kwabasebenzi"kusho uSolwazi Erin Holmes waseBrigham Young University. “Sikutholile lokho "Lapho amakhosikazi enza umsebenzi ndawonye nabayeni bawo, aneliseka kakhulu ngokuhlukaniswa komsebenzi."
Ochwepheshe bahlola imibhangqwana engu-160 futhi bahlaziya indlela eyayisingatha ngayo imisebenzi yasekhaya nemisebenzi yokukhulisa izingane. Inhloso yocwaningo kwakuwukubona ukuthi yiziphi izici ezibe nomthelela eqophelweni lobudlelwano bomshado.
Isici esibaluleke kakhulu kwakuyikhwalithi yobuhlobo babazali nezingane zabo.
Ucwaningo lulinganise ukuzibandakanya kukababa ochungechungeni lwemisebenzi efana nokudlala nezingane, ukubamba iqhaza ezintweni ezithakaselwayo ezifanayo, kanye nokuhlinzeka ngezikhathi ezifundisekayo. "Into elula njengokuthi Fundela izingane zakho indaba njalo ebusuku futhi uxoxe nazo ngokuthi luhambe kanjani usuku lwazo.kusho u-Adam Galovan, umbhali ohlanganyele wocwaningo noHolmes.
Iningi labazali lalineminyaka ephakathi kuka-25 no-30 ubudala futhi yonke imibhangqwana yayinengane eneminyaka emihlanu noma ngaphansi.
“Lesi sigaba sempilo, lapho imibhangqwana inezingane ezincane, kungenzeka sinzima kakhulu kubo kodwa sithole ukuthi uma amakhosikazi enelisekile ngokuhlukaniswa kwemisebenzi, bobabili abashadile bayabika. "ikhwalithi yomshado engcono"Kusho uHolmes.
Ukuze lokhu kwenzeke, imibhangqwana ingenza ngokuhlanganyela eminye yemisebenzi yasekhaya njengokupheka noma ukulungisa ikamelo. Ukwengeza, abazali kufanele bakuqaphele lokho Kumelwe baqinise ubuhlobo nabantwana babo. Ubuhlobo bakho buzojabulisa kakhulu.